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1 Relationships and Sexuality References and Resources For Young Adults 18+, Note: Many resources available on Amazon.com, Favorites are in red Updated AUG 2020-Susan Labhard, MSN, RN; Shriners Hospital for Children-Portland, Oregon **Please notify [email protected] of any changes. Youth with Physical Differences • Basso, M.J. (2003). The Underground Guide to Teenage Sexuality (2nd Edition). Minneapolis, MN: Fairview Press. ISBN 978- 1-57749-131-6 • Ducharme, S.H., & Gill, K.M. (1997). Sexuality After Spinal Cord Injury: Answers to Your Questions. Baltimore, MD: Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co., Inc. ISBN 1-55766-265-7 • Gray, J. (1992). Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. New York, NY: Harper Collins Publishers, Inc. ISBN 0-06- 016848-X • Haseltine, F.P., Cole, S.S., Gray, D.B. (1993). Reproductive Issues for Persons with Physical Disabilities. Baltimore, MD: Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co. ISBN 1-55766-111-1 • Kaufman, M., Silverberg, C., Odette, F. (2007). The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain & Illness. San Francisco, CA: Cleis Press. ISBN 978-157344-304-3\ • Kaufman, M., (2012). Easy for You to Say: Q & As for Teens Living with Chronic Illness or Disability. Firefly Books. ISBN 13:978-1-77085-6 • Kriegsman, K., Zaslow, E., D'Zmura-Rechsteiner, J. (1992). Taking Charge: Teenagers Talk About Life & Physical Disabilities. Woodbine House, Inc. ISBN 0-933149-46-8 • Kroll, K., & Klein, E. (2001). Enabling Romance: A Guide to Love, Sex, and Relationships for People with Disabilities (and the People who Care About Them). No Limits Communications, P.O. Box 220, Horsham, PA 19044. ISBN 0-9712842-0-2 • Krotoski, D.M., Nosek, M.A., & Turk, M.A. (1996). Women with Physical Disabilities. Baltimore, MD: Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co., Inc. ISBN 1-55766-234-7 • Labhard, S., Laird, C., Linroth, R., O’Connor, R.C., Jones, J., & Jones, G., Peterson, P., Stigall, C. (2010). Sexuality and Spina Bifida. Washington, DC: Spina Bifida Association. www.spinabifidaassociation.org (1-800) 621-3141 • Ludwig, S., & Hingsburger, D. (1993). Being Sexual: An Illustrated Series on Sexuality and Relationships-Teaching Manual (Number 17). Toronto, Ontario, Canada: SIECCAN. • Macavinta, C. & Pluym, A.V. (2005). Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line is Crossed. Minneapolis, MN: Free Spirit Publishing Inc. ISBN 1-57542-177-1 • McRuer, R. & Mollow, A. (2012). Sex and Disability. Durham & London: Duke University Press. ISBN 978-0-8223-5154-2 • Schover, L.R. (1997). Sexuality and Fertility After Cancer. New York: John Wiley & Sons, Inc. ISBN 0-471-18194-3 • Stanley, D.A. (2003). Sexual Health Information for Teens. Detroit, MI: Omnigraphics, Inc. ISBN 0-7808-0445-7 • The Sex Ed Store: Many resources for sex educators http://www.sexedstore.com • Verheijden, J. & Wiegerink, D. Can You Have Sex If You Have CP? BOSK, Assoc. of People with Cerebral Palsy; P.O. Box 3359; NL-3502 GJ UTRECHT, the Netherlands T+31 (0)30 245 90 90; [email protected]; W-https://bosk.nl/ • Wiegerink, D. (2010). Romantic Relationships & Sexual Experiences of Adolescents and Young Adults with Cerebral Palsy. Erasmus University, Optima grafische Communicatie, Rotterdam, The Netherlands.ISBN 978-90-8559-129-0 Youth with Developmental, Intellectual and/or physical differences: • Allen, John D. (2003). Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender People with Developmental Disabilities and Mental Retardation. Binghamton, NY: Harrington Park Press. ISBN 1-56023-396-6 • Baker, J. (2006). The Social Skills Picture Book for High School and Beyond. Arlington, TX: Future Horizons, Inc. ISBN 10: 1-932565-35-3. Phone: (1-800) 489-0727 • Couwenhoven, T. (2007). Teaching Children with Down Syndrome about Their Bodies, Boundaries, and Sexuality. Bethesda, MD: Woodbine House, Inc. ISBN 978-189062733-1 • Drury, J., Hutchinson, L., & Wright, J. (2000). Holding On, Letting Go: Sex, Sexuality and People with Learning Disabilities. London, England: Souvenir Press Ltd. ISBN 0285-63578-6  2 • Duke, M., Nowicki, Jr. S. & Martin, E. (1996). Teaching Your Child the Language of Social Success. Atlanta, GA: Peachtree Publishers, LTD. ISBN 1-56145-126-6 • Dunn, J. (2004). Children’s Friendships: The Beginnings of Intimacy. Malden, MA: Blackwell Publishing.ISBN 1-4051-1448-7 • Elman, N.M. & Kennedy-Moore, E. (2003). The Unwritten Rules of Friendship: Simple Strategies to Help Your Child Make Friends. Boston, MA: Little, Brown & Co. ISBN 0-316-91730-3 • Frankel, F. (1996). Good Friends are Hard to Find: Help Your Child Find, Make and Keep Friends. Los Angeles, CA: Perspective Publishing. ISBN 0-9622036-7-X • Griffiths, D., Quinsey, V. & Hingsburger, D. (1989). Changing Inappropriate Sexual Behavior: A Community-Based Approach for Persons with Developmental Disabilities. Baltimore: P.H. Brookes Publishing Co. ISBN: 1557660093 • Henault, I. (2006). Asperger’s Syndrome and Sexuality. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 1-84310-189-0 • Hendrickx, S. (2008). Love, Sex & Long-Term Relationships:What People with Asperger Syndrome Really Really Want. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 987-1-84310-605-0 • Hingsburger, D. (1998). Do? Be? Do? What to Teach & How to Teach People with Developmental Disabilities. Richmond Hill, Ontario, Canada: Diverse City Press Inc. ISBN 1-896230-10-5 • Hingsburger, D. (1990). i to I. Self Concept & People with Developmental Disabilities. Mountville, PA: VIDA Publishing. • Hingsburger, D. (1995). Just Say Know! Richmond Hill, Ontario, Canada: Diverse City Press Inc. ISBN 1-896230-00-8 • Kriegsman, K., Zaslow, E., D’Zmura-Rechsteiner, J. (1992). Taking Charge: Teenagers Talk About Life & Physical Disabilities. Woodbine House, Inc. ISBN 0-933149-46-8 • Lavoie, R. (2005). It’s So Much Work to Be Your Friend. New York, NY: Simon & Schuster.ISBN-13: 978-0-7432-5463-2 • Lawson, W. (2005). Sex, Sexuality and the Autism Spectrum. Philadelphia, PA: Jessica Kingsley Publishers. ISBN 1-84310- 284-6 • Meadours, J. (2006). Healthy Relationships and Safe Sex. (Available from Human Services Research Inst., 7420 SW Bridgeport Rd., Suite #210; Portland, OR 97224). Phone: (503) 924-3783 x10. • Michelle, L. (1995). How Kids Make Friends. Buffalo Grove, IL: Freedom Publishing Co. ISBN 0-9638152-1-0 • Moss, K. & Blaha, R. (2001). Introduction to Sexuality Education for Individuals Who Are Deaf-Blind and Significantly Developmentally Delayed. (Free from DB-Link, 345 N. Monmouth Ave., Monmouth, OR 97361). • Newport, J. & Newport, M. (2002). Autism-Asperger’s & Sexuality: Puberty and Beyond. Arlington, TX; Future Horizons, Inc. ISBN 1-885-477880. Toll-free: 1-800-489-0727 • Nowicki, Jr. S. & Duke, M.P. (1999). Helping the Child Who Doesn’t Fit In. Atlanta, GA: Peachtree Publishers, Ltd. ISBN 1- 56145-025-1 • Puberty Education for Students with Special Needs: A Girl’s/Boy’s Guide to Growing Up (DVD), A Girl’s/Boy’s Guide to Puberty and Personal Safety (DVD) & Parents/Guardians Handbook; Bullying Prevention resources: Available from MarshMedia (1-800-821-3303) or www.Marshmedia.com (some Spanish versions available) • Ramey, E.M. & Ramey J.J. (2008). Autistics’ Guide to Dating. Philadelphia, PA: Thomson-Shore, Inc. ISBN 978- 1-84310-881-8 • Rubin, K.H. (2003). The Friendship Factor. New York, NY: Penguin Putnam Inc. ISBN 0-14-200189-9 • Schwier, K.M., & Hingsburger, D. (2000). Sexuality: Your Sons and Daughters with Intellectual Disabilities. Baltimore, MD: Paul H. Brookes Publishing Co., Inc. ISBN 1-55766-428-5 • Strong, Safe & Free Curriculum for Teaching Safe Interaction & Healthy Relationships along with Self-Defense for Adults with Developmental Disabilities. Contact Elly Maloney, Self-Defense Program Coordinator, Sexual Assault Support Services. Phone: (541) 484-9791 x319 or [email protected] • The Sex Ed Store: Many resources for sex educators http://www.sexedstore.com • Vanderbilt Kennedy Center: LEND-Leadership Education in Neurodevelopmental Disabilities (2013). Healthy Bodies Toolkit for Boys-A Parent’s Guide on Puberty for Boys with Disabilities & Healthy Bodies Toolkit for Girls-A Parent’s Guide on Puberty for Girls with Disabilities. Free download-English & Spanish): http://kc.vanderbilt.edu/healthybodies/ Phone: (615) 322-5658 or (866) 936-8852 • Walker-Hirsch, L. (2007). The Facts of Life…and More. Baltimore, MD: Paul H. Brooks Publishing Co. ISBN 13:978-1-55766-714-4. www.lesliewalker-hirsch.com & Circles App (social boundaries: http://circlesapp.com/)